Saturday, May 7, 2011

A Lesson From Tamar

Scripture Verse that Caught My Attention Today: 2 Samuel 13:13 As for me, where could I carry my shame? And as for you, you would be as one of the scoundrels in Israel. Now therefore, I beg you, speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you.”

Observation: Amnon, a son of David, is in the beginning stage of raping his half-sister Tamar.

Application: I’m struck by the wisdom of Tamar who spoke the words offered in the verse above. Her resistance does not focus just on the act itself, but also on the negative long-term affects—and not just for her, but also for him.

Human desire, particularly sexual desire, often defies rationality—it’s easy to be physically attracted to people in all kinds of circumstances. But then what? Thinking things through with some reasonable questions might be a first step. Tamar took a moment to consider how this might look in the long run. She realized that the way Amnon was going about things would bring personal shame on her and dramatically lower his social status in the world as well. It was a lose-lose situation. Authentic relationships are win-win.

Prayer:
Lord, help people to take the time to pursue authentic relationships rather than the kind that are self-serving and harmful. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

(Readings today included: 2 Samuel 13-14 and Matthew 24)

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